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Edisi Masuk Rumah: Anak Pertama

Ketika pergi ke kenduri doa selamat jiran..

Neighbour's Mom: Ini anak nombor berapa? (sambil tunjuk ke perut Hane)
Emak Hane: ooOooh yang first...
Neighbour's Mom: ooOh, untunglah ye, anak pertama lagi dah ade rumah sendiri

hmmm..tak pernah terfikir pula macam tu, tapi betul juga. Alhamdulillah..and MOST IMPORTANTLY, kami masuk rumah, renovate dan beli barang sepuas hati tanpa berhutang. Credit to Hannan yang pandai simpan duit dan isterinya yang pandai lagi bijaksana dan kreatif menghias rumah.

Financially, Hane menyumbang 37.5% sahaja and there goes 3 Chanel handbags..huhu tapi apa yang penting? Rumah yang selesa tanpa bebanan hutang..



Kitchen in the making
 
Cleaner - Highly recommended..!
Air-cond people hard at work


 

Salam Aidilfitri

Selamat hari raya aidilfitri to ALL. Semoga raya kali ini lebih bermakna di samping orang tersayang..mine is :)



























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Budget Raya 2011

Wah, dah 9 hari berpuasa rupanya. Alhamdulillah, at 5 months preggy, puasa masih penuh (so far)..insyaAllah dapat berpuasa penuh tahun ini.

Just nak share budget raya Hane, bukan amount ye, just items dalam budget raya..

Category A: Duit Raya
A1. Duit Raya Emak
A2. Duit Raya Ayah
A3. Gift untuk ibu mertua
A4. Duit Raya Adik & Adik ipar
A5. Duit Raya anak buah bawah 3 tahun
A6. Duit Raya anak buah bawah 3-12 tahun
A7. Duit Raya anak buah bawah 13-17 tahun
A8. Duit Raya kanak-kanak di kampung
A9. Duit Raya anak kawan-kawan
A10. Duit Raya others/misc

Category B: Persiapan Raya untuk diri sendiri
B1. Baju Raya
B2. Tudung Raya
B3. Sandal Raya 1 - untuk pakai balik kampung, kena cari yang selesa & flat
B4. Sandal Raya 2 - untuk pakai open houses kawan, yang ini boleh la nak vogue sket
B5. Make up
B6. Kuih raya untuk makan sendiri (selain dari ambil dari rumah emak)

Category C: Persiapan Raya di rumah emak
C1. Pre-raya preparation #1  - untuk emak buat kuih raya. kalau rajin je booking macam-macam and berbalang-balang kuih emak tu kan, kena la menyumbang. memang la emak tak minta, tapi...sendiri mahu ingat la ye. beri mid bulan puasa or selalunya shopping terus sekali dengan emak beli bahan-bahan
C2. Shopping raya - nak raya selalu akan keluar shopping dengan emak dan nieces (ada 2 orang yang memang duduk dengan emak), so sambil shopping barang sendiri, biasanya akan belikan mereka barang raya juga e.g. tudung, sandal
C3. Pre-raya preparation #2 - untuk emak beli bahan masak di pagi raya, contohnya daging, ayam, nasi himpit, ketupat etc. beri sekali terus hujung puasa dengan duit raya untuk emak
C4. Raya - saudara mara dan kawan-kawan datang visit semua di rumah emak. tetamu datang beraya kena lah jamu kan? dan biasanya untuk tetamu yang Hane tak kenal, Hane wakilkan emak je bagi duit raya

Category D: Transportation
D1. Service kereta - target lepas dapat bonus PB bulan 8 ini :)
D2. Toll charges - nak jalan jauh kan
D3. Minyak/Gas - of course kena budget extra masa bulan raya

Tak masuk rumah lagi raya ini, so tiada la budget untuk raya untuk rumah sendiri. If not sure lagi banyak dalam budget list..!

Phew~ memang banyak belanja time raya ini kan? Ramai yang akan kata "...asalkan ikhlas..", ahaks, iye memang Hane setuju, tapi kalau memang ada extra income, CONFIRM laaaagi ikhlas.


Yeay, It's a Boy or.....Girl?


Petang ini ada pregnancy checkup appoinment. Insya-Allah sudah boleh tahu sex baby, yeay~ Baby, show doc your tuuuutt ok..So sementara nak tahu, jom ber-quiz dahulu..jommmm

Tanda bayi lelaki

1. Anda tidak mengalami morning sickness yang teruk pada awal kehamilan atau mungkin tiada langsung - Yes
2. Degupan jantung bayi kurang dari 140 kali dalam satu minit- No

3. Anda rasakan beban berat dan bahagian depan tubuh - No
4. Perut anda kelihatan bulat sempurna - No, tapi bulat la...
5. Bahagian aereola akan menjadi lebih gelap - 50/50..kalau ye pun takkan nak mengaku di sini..hahahaha
6. Bentuk perut condong kearah bawah - 50/50 - tak tahu nak tgk
7. Sukakan makanan yang masam dan masin - Yes, mangga masam cecah garam..best..!! tapi kalau xde, xdelah cari, kalau ada, makan lah
8. Suka makan daging dan keju - No
9. Tapak kaki selalu berasa sejuk - No..panas..!!!
10. Tangan selalu kekeringan - No..but Hane memang terlebih rajin sapu oil, balm, moisturizer etc..
11. Suka menghadapkan wajah ke Utara semasa tidur - 50/50 actually katil boleh facing east or west je pun

12. Bukan hanya anda , tetapi suami juga bertambah berat badannya - No, makin berkurang ada la
13. Anda kelihatan lebih berseri semasa hamil - Takkkk punnnn...!!!
14. Hidung tampak lebih mekar -50/50
15. Selalu sakit kepala - Pening ke? Yes


Yes - 3 , No - 8 , 50/50 - 4

Tanda bayi perempuan

1. Mengalami morning sickness di awal kehamilan - No

2. Merasakan beban berat pada bahagian pinggul dan punggung - Yes
3. Payudara kiri lebih besar berbanding kanan- 50/50 - tak check la plak
4. Rambut anda berwarna kemerahan daripada sebelumnya - No5. Bentuk perut condong ke arah atas - 50/50 - tak tahu nak tgk

6. Perut tampak agak lonjong - 50/50 - tak tahu nak tgk
7. Mengidam makanan yang manis- Yes
8. Sukakan buah-buahan - Yes
9. Suka minum air atau jus yang bersifat masam - Yes, i like fresh orange, apple
10. Anda lebih cerewet semasa hamil - No
11. Mudah moody berbanding sebelumnya- Yes
12. Kulit wajah bermasalah berbanding sebelum hamil - No, <amalkan lah Chlorella..haha>
13. Tidak suka makan roti bersama kulitnya - 50/50 sbb tak makan roti pun
14. Payudara kelihatan mengembang - Yes
15. Suka mengadapkan wajah ke selatan semasa tidur - 50/50 actually katil boleh facing east or west je pun


Yes - 6 , No - 4 , Tidak pasti - 5

Occay..kalau ikut kan quiz ini, tendency more to GIRL, tapi..... para-para makcik yang Hane jumpa asyik cakap.."hmmm..lelaki ni.." sebabnya adalah Hane tak rajin pakai make-up semasa tengah pregnant ni..or "..kalau baby girl nampak lawa, suka berhias..." huh? hampeh~nak cakap Hane tak lawa ke??

Yes, memang ada preference BUT asalkan sihat & sempurna, dan kami pun selamat...Alhamdulillah. Either way is fine, sentiasa boleh cuba lagi ;)

source from here: http://bidanbersalin.blogspot.com/ but i 1st read it from here: http://ummi-yaya.blogspot.com/


Reno Deco and Loan

Taken from New World, Bintulu hotel lounge. Cantik tak? I'm in the midst of renovating and decorating our home. Thot of putting one of the wall like this..








Cakap pasal nak masuk rumah..pheww~ ingatkan kahwin/wedding mahal kan?? Ini lagi mahal..kalau takde rm60k cash..well, boleh la..masuk rumah alas tikar getah tapi kalau nk selesa + hotel inspired..sila saving dari sekarang.

No wonder selalu dengar orang buat loan untuk renovate rumah. Loan kahwin dah settle? Kalau buat dengan FaMaloan.com maybe boleh buat-buat lupa je la kan, or minta halal..hehe.

Alhamdulillah, kami kahwin guna duit sendiri tanpa perlu guna FaMaloan.com atau buat personal loan at bank..and nak masuk rumah pun dah ada some cash put aside.

and with PB biz, i can finally contribute financially to the family. at least part nak travel every year is taken care of, kan? We had a blast in Hong Kong..next trip is to Holland+Belgium woot woot..Or the very least, Hane fikir, kalau nak shopping tu tak payah la nak kacau family fund dah kan?

Oh dont get me wrong, etho hane pun bekerja, well gaji pun ok juga la.. tak contribute pun to the "family fund". ALL family expenses and bills mmg husband yang bayar, but i'm just thinking, if not contributing, i dont want to be a burden with desires and demands. But nama pun perempuan kan...panjang sungguh list kemahuaan kita tu. (itu yang susah nak contribute tu :p) Kalau bukan untuk diri sendiri, untuk suami juga. And yang ada anak, untuk anak-anak kan?

Ok,how come dari reno deco sampai ke sini. I better stop now. Actually i have to stop sbb flight attendant dah jeling..bye-bye

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Dah Kaya? Getting There…


Q1: Kau dah kaya keeeee..???
Q2: Bila nak pakai beemdoubleuuuu..???
Q3: Bila nak resignnnnnn…???
Ahaks, these are the most frequent questions from my “friends”.
Insya-Allah, insya-Allah, insya-Allah is all I can say. Terima kasih banyak-banyak mendoakan kejayaan dan kesenangan hidupku ini ye.
When I started doing  Premium Beautiful biz, what were my targets?
1. nak pakai set Premium Beautiful PERCUMA…TICKED
2. nak recover modal…TICKED, achieved within 2 weeks
3. nak paid off credit card debts (~17k++)…Alhamdulillah, settled dah hutang credit card
4. nak free travel ke Hong Kong for two…TICKED, and dapat qualified kan another 4 tixs for my biz partners juga
Then…. there’s not on the list
5. purchased of my first home, Saville @Melawati which costs me rm40k for deposit.
So, whats next?
6. maintain zero balance credit card while still enjoying nice food, nice clothes, pampering here n there etc…I require at least extra rm1.5k per month to do that. Ini tak kira raya..*sigh*
7. shopping money at Hong Kong, rm10k à dh ready. weehuuu..:)
8. Alhamdulillah rumah dah siap and I need $$$ for some reno and deco of master bedroom approx rm18k.
9. Build emergency fund, increase saving, investments...approx rm3k per month.
10. berbakti ke jalan Allah (cewah..) e.g. bagi parents/wedding gift/newborn gift/duit raya/help friends & families in need
So to simply answer Qs #1, NO, tak kaya duit ribu-ribu dlm bank and still far from it. But I’m not stress financially and I get to spend live as I wish without having to be secretive about my credit card balance financial status with my husband.
Q #2, Change car? Frankly, I don’t have enough cash to pay the deposit…..yet. And looking at necessity in life that keeps coming e.g. target #8 and #9, this might have to be put on hold just a lil while.
and Q #3, resign?? Why?? I don’t LOVE my job but I don’t HATE it too, I don’t remember bitching about it all the time (sometime yes la..who doesn’t?). Btw, it pays good money which could easily cover my bills. And it comes with epf and good medical benefits too (etho even if I resign I still could enjoy the medical benefit  on my husband’s account haha)..YES, memang ada plan to resign, even before starting this Premium Beautiful biz… just there is no rush to it. Currently, I’m ok with my job, I like my boss, I like my colleagues.
So that’s about it. I have my priorities (well, hannan will def alter the list and budget after he read this, aaahhh the joy of married life :p)
Anyhow, for someone yang started the biz with zero, actually minus and in deep shit..i’m content and happy yet still striving still for the best. Teruskan mendoakan kekayaan kejayaan Hane ye..:)

Bila Dah Buat Silap

al-kisahnya, for the past 3 days, husband asyik tanya kt wife dia


him: name card sime darby yang ade no banker tu ade kat awak kan?


her: tak de..!


(dgn confidentnye so that husband dia taktau dia tgh pk kt mana dia letak name card tu which could lead to discussion  tukar handbag, kena kemas brg dlm handbag, tak payah beli handbag baru and alll unnecessary items)


tapi kat office, tetiba nampak card tu atas workstation uhuk*uhuk




so, for minor mixed up...bila dah silap,


1. mengaku


2. pull off your asset/charm/sweet-ness/cute-ness

Saya Bebas Hutang..yeay~

"Arguments about money hamper many marriages. In fact, couples fight about money twice as much as they fight about sex, according to a survey."

further reading....artikel ini

Saturday, 12th March 2011

The dreaded conversation between husband and wife.


Him: berapa balance credit card awak?

Me: adela……sikeettt sana sikeeet sini

Him: berapa..?? jangan nak tipu..saya tau

Me: (kalau tau tanyer nape?) errr....maybank 6k, hsbc 8k…

Him: Ya Allah..ape yang banyak sangat..beli ape? Tak nampak ape pun

Me: saya pun tak tau saya beli ape..bukan salah saya (err..salah sape la pulak kan?)

Him: bak sini credit card awak tu..awak settlekan semua baru saya bagi balik

Me: nnt saya nak belanja mcm mana? nk bayar minyak keta sume..

(huhu, isi minyak lori ke??..hahaha)

Him: apa yg awak belanja nyer? Makan saya bayar, shopping saya bayar..either awak bagi saya cc awak or lepas ni semua awak bayar sendiri

Me: *oh nooo..tak nak bayar tapi tak best nya takde credit card..sedih mode* amik aaa.. *takpe..leh guna duit acc saving lak utk shopping…*

pelamin anganku musnah apabila...


Him: Awak make sure settle kan semua..selagi tak settle, satu barang pun jangan beli..

Me: KEJAM..!!! (dalam hati je of coz..)

Wednesday, 16th March 2011

Alhamdulillah… yeay to me sudah selamat SETTLE-D semua credit card debt after banyak tangguh sana sini sinun..hehehe, memang ade duit dalam account saving from ber-biz Premium Beautiful ini tapi seronok tengok duit banyakkkk dalam account..so al-jakun sekejap. Alhamdulillah jumpa biz ini, kalau tak 5 tahun pun tak settle agaknya..bila fikir balik, hubby reaction pun sangat mild..hahaha maybe kurang stress sebab yakin* wife dia boleh generate income untuk bayar semua...

Hukhuk, tapi kurang la duit tabung shoppingku ke Hong Kong….oh, takpe, HK bulan 6, sempat nak top up duit shopping...!!

*self proclaimed..hahahaha

OK, ini ada artikel menarik untuk yang pasangan suami isteri, cewah..pandai la plak nak suruh orang lain baca artikel kewangan..hahaha...

How to Make Your Marriage Secure Financially

Jangan sampai "till debt do us part" - peringatan untuk diri sendiri sebab hubby sangat sensitive bab duit sebagaimana wife dia sensitive bab kahwin dua + berat badan + warna kulit + skill memasak etc


mari menabung..?? hehe..oooh..tak sabar lak nak tido malam ini, kalau tak berhutang ni tidur lebih lena...ye ke??


Semoga kami dirahmati selalu..Amin

Missing You

Dear Awak, you annoy me so much when we are together..yet, i miss u so much when you are not around.


Honeymoon in the City

We checked in Shangri La, KL 25 – 26 dec 2010 for our mini honeymoon.

Rumah di KL, kerja pun kat tengah-tengah KL, so why la pilih KL kan for honeymoon kan?

Ooooh..tapi itu la sebab nya..supaya tak sibuk nak keluar tengok apa ada kat luar. KLCC? Breakfast, lunch and after work arrangement selalu sangat dah kat situ. Pavillion? Weekend hangout, suka food court Pavillion. Mid Valley? Our fav place to eat Carl’s Jr and tengok movie. The Garden’s? before pergi Mid Valley, suka window shopping at their boutiques.

(why to-do-lists banyak shopping centre je..?)

So, kira boleh enjoy the room la..bila bayar bilik hotel sendiri ni, rasa nak gunakan sepenuhnya semua kemudahan yang ada. Plus save on travelling time la..then bila travel, penat la pula. 

Harga pun tak mahal la..less than rm500 (weekend rewards rate ), normal price rm700++

and considering 5 star hotel, tengah-tengah KL dan di hujung minggu plus these complimentaries 


  • Free internet connection in room. Ok, sound lame tapi…banyak je hotel kat KL ni tak include kan free internet tau
  • Free Parking. Again, sound lame again tapi…I know a hotel yang charge in house customer untuk parking. Sangat annoying!

Yang bestnya adalah these two complimentaries


  • Complimentary buffet breakfast for two at Lemon Garden Café – OMG..the breakfast is one of the best and I’ve tasted all hotel within 5km radius of KLCC.

[slideshow]

Yes, bila tengok all these food..i’m thinking “thank god for PB”

And it’ll cost walk in customers this much for the buffet breakfast..!!



  • Complimentary late check out at 4pm – lepas breakfast masih sempat enjoy the  room :P

(Yes, masa ini pun berfikir “nasib baik ada PB, ada lagi stamina..” :P)

Upon arrival, dapat pink roses and di-upgrade-kan dari deluxe room ke executive suite..yeay~

(tips: during booking, write down your special event. In my case, it was for our wedding anniversary)


The service e.g. receptionist, door bell, concierge etc memang 5 star. At first nak makan kat Arthur’s Grill tapi the concierge informed that their menu will be Christmas menu. So our other option was Victoria’s Station. The concierge voluntarily made the booking for us. Luckily he did, because VS was so full that night.


All in all, for quick weekend getaway or mini honeymoon, no need to travel far. Instead of bayar transportation fees, boleh book a nice hotel nearby and enjoy their facilities…:)




Thank you to my hubby for all the pampering

My Suprised, His Suprised

tengah excited tunggu husband pulang ni, checked la schedule..:P

selasa



ooo..hubby pulang jumaat..yeay :P, sempat-sempat

tapi on rabu....huhuhu


check balik schedule the period cycle



my period cycle length is 28 days..?? waaah..mcm buku teks form 3 la.ahahaha

thanks PB..after all my efforts nak stabilkan period dan hilangkan period pain, sukses juga

hopefully, our plan to conceive will be successfull..insyaAllah

tapi, the drama masa bagitau hubby afterwards tu.....

(4 bulan tak jumpa ok..!)

betulla orang cakap..

"be careful what u wish for, u might get it"

the timing tu.alahaiii..memang menduga iman

My LV Totally

30th July 2010, Friday: I landed at Heathrow, 5pm-ish.

31st July 2010, Sat: Cakap kat husband nak pegi “jalan-jalan” Bond Street…ahaks. He bought me LV Totally yea..!

1st Aug – 6th Aug 2010: Vacationing at Prague and Amsterdam

Haruslah bawa handbag baru kan pergi jalan-jalan… hehehe

(I’m not the type yang simpan handbag dalam laci.suka tukar-tukar handbag)

And dengan confidentnya tak bawa second handbag.. pakai pula baju hitam yang baru beli…

BIG MISTAKE..!!

 

(oh! Bulat nya kami. Note: this is pre-PB hehe)

Just arrived at Prague Airport..Ooohh..the bag was only 1 day old, so bright and cantik and I stain it with black jumper…huhu sorrryyy LV II.

So…there are stain at handle and canvas due to rubbing effect. Huwaaa…tengah-tengah holiday siap boleh google on how to erase the stain. Guess what is the tips?

ERASER…ahaha


 Ahaks..siap pegi cari stationeries store kat Amsterdam… tak sempat sampai rumah, atas tram dah cuba try test  the eraser tips. It works..! u just use the eraser to erase the stain.

 
 “tengok awak, hilangkan??..”

Ya, husband saya dengan setianya (ke pasrah?) tengok wife die stain the handbag he just bought and tried to rectify it.

 That’s all folks.

December...Whats Coming My Way

My dearest husband…

(after 6 months in UK..)


AND OF COURSE...

THE JOY HE'LL BRING STRAIGHT FROM BOND STREET.....

Just sneak preview dulu ye sebab barang tak dapat kat tangan lagi...

item #1


item #2


Christmas comes early for me this year...!!!!

Eat, Live, Laugh


Had a greaattt weekend in Alor Setar. Not my hometown, but my husband side. Saya mewakilkan satu family dia yang not available.

Datang sorang, duduk pula kt rumah yang kenduri. Memang asyik kena makan la. Setiap time makan kena makan and semua kena rasa. Part minum pagi, petang, makan & minum masa sedara mara datang takyah cakaplah.

3 hari pesta makan. Buat keje nya sket je. Iyela,zaman orang katering and door gifts pun tempah kan.

Balik kl, agak pasrah. Mula-mula nak tunggu sehari dua baru timbang balik tapi..... Nak tau juga berapa banyak naik,senang nak target turun. Dup dap dup dap juga ni. Hmm.. Naik je la,

Normally, my weekend eating fiesta will definitely gain me 2-3 kgs. Dah standby la 2.5 kgs naik...

Nervous nya nak timbang. Prepared mentally. Step on the scale.... Huh?
Betul ke? Turun balik, tap the scale, naik balik... Waaaa, naik 0.3kg sahaja...!!! Siap fikir, ooh ni kalau pegi toilet sekali leh settle berat ni..ahaks

Alhamdulillah. Nampaknya, my metabolism is not as fuc*ed up as before. Gembira nya rasa dapat join family gathering aka makan-makan sessions. Tak perlu bawa berbotol-botol meal replacement and control portion macam nak gila. Best-best..!!

Mulberry.....NOT




Going to LCCT. Belikan emak handbag ni during my trip to London this year. Nampak macam Mulberry Bayswater kan?? Haha. I bought it at Clark's.

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